Never compete your children with other's, especially between sibilings.

I happen to see lots of parents like to compete their children with others' children, which i think that this is really unfair of the children.

Have you ever wonder how your children feel about you competing them with other children? Do you know how they will think if they lose the so called "competition" you guys set for them?

And i think that all of you understood how it felt to lose some competition. To be victory in something is good, but to fail in something will bring the moral down. Especially with children, their innocent mind will be corrupted by your ego for competing mindset, which later will cause them to hate each other because of this.

i always think that if one had put effort in doing something, even if he or she failed you should support them by awarding them, and tell them to try harder next time.

It's always been hard to accept failure as an achievement, but it's always easy to accept success as an achievement.

It had been always said that "Failure is a step away from Success", By understanding this alone is easy, but to put it in life is difficult.

Anyone in this world isn't born to be a genius, everyone had to learn how to fall before they could walk. This too apply for both children and adult. Don't be afraid to fail, but be afraid that you don't learn from your failure.

My Toe after seeing the doctor

Yesterday, i went to Ang Mo Kio to see a legendary Chinese sensei, Who i heard that he was very famous and had an experience of over 50 years on healing joint, sprained, or injure leg.

The place wasn't that hard to find, but because it's my first time going there, i couldn't really find it. Luckily my auntie and uncle, drove me and take me there. Without them i think I'll be like a lost kitten.

When i was in the sensei house, he look like a 70++ year old man. But i can tell that this guy is really pro at this, therefore my fear of the sensei was gone. Once he took a look at my toe, he knew what happen to me(even me, myself don't really know what happen to me). Once he press on the wound he know that my toe had "fa yan"(i think in English should be swollen), so he proceed with the healing process. Within 10 seconds, i screamed like a girl and it was done. I was shocked that it only took such a short.

Picture of my toe.

Just a toe injury i had to wrap the whole leg funny right?

Yesterday night, it was a long night to me. The pain from my toe was so painful that i cannot sleep well, almost every hour i'm woken up by the pain from my injuried toe.
Sleepless night...... But still had to go to work this morning.

When i woke up this morning, the first step i took and touches the floor, i scream in pain. The pain was so unbearable, but still my mind was thinking of money and work. i dragged myself to the washroom, brush my teeth, wash my face, and go "she she". When i try to wear the shoe(which i always wear to work), my foot couldn't fit into it. Therefore, i wear slipper to work.

When i reach my workplace, everyone was asking about waht happen to me. i'm so touch that everyone around me care so much of me. During morning time, the pain from my toe still not away, and i'm thinking how can i go back to Malaysia in my current state.

After lunch, the pain from my toe had lessen abit, and i'm feeling mach better now. So i can go back to Malaysia loh HAHA. :)

My toe is so painful

It had been three day ever since, i feel that my toe was in a pain. Instead of getting better, it's getting worst. But still i had to go to work with my painful toe, dragging myself to work. To make things worst, everyday i had to work for almost 15 mins to get to my work place. Had to climb the fence of the big drain, had to climb the stupid overhead bridge.

But what to do, I'm a cheapo guy who won't see Singapore doctor(unless i'm going to die). Singapore doctor are so damma expansive and only give one day MC, some more i also cannot claim it back from the company, as my company also a cheapo company. So what to do, have to bear with the pain until i go back to Malaysia to see Chinese doctor lor.

Picture taken from Goggle image

Hi all, join us in Facebook

Hi all, i'm happy to let you know that i had created the first "Yong Yong Dessert" page in Facebook for my Dad's "Yong Yong Dessert" in Facebook. Find us at Facebook, go search and search for "Yong Yong Dessert".

Inside there, there will be updates of our stall and activity. Please support us by joining the page as fans. I thank you for your support.

The King of Martial Arts Part1 (Introduction)

Ok, i wrote this out of fun. I always had a dream of watch all the great fighting actors all come together and produce a movie or a drama, as i think that it will be interesting to see how they fight and who will become the victor.

Therefore, i come out with this story "The King of Martial Arts". The King Of Martial Arts is title given to the event King of Martial Arts(KMA). This event will occur when the previous KMA coming near to the end of his life or he's dead. This story will start with Hong Jin Bao(who will be the previous KMA).

Picture taken from wu-jing.org

But sadly, he was diagnosed with last stage brain tumour, and the doctor suggested that he had about 1 year to live, thus it's important that he pass his title to the next winner of KMA. He do not have any student to represent him for the match, therefore his skill of fighting is lost.

When the news broke out to the world, the rich businessmen came to him to sponsor the event. Media also came to broadcast the event to all around the world, so that people around the world could take part in the event.

The rules of the KMA is simple, two fighters will fight with each other, the one who is killed or give up will be the loser. And the winner will move on to the following round, weapon will be allowed, except for guns or other similar weapon. The last fighter who wins the final round of the match will be The King Of Martial Arts and will be awarded with 100 Million US dollar.

There will be only 3 famous fighter, who were invited personally by Hong Jin Bao himself, and they can skip the trial round to advance to the initial round. In the initial round, there will be 32 qualifiers from both trial round and the invited fighter. (However, in the initial round weapons of all kind are not allow.)

After the initial round, 16 fighters will emerge out of the 32 fighter. Then the 16 of them will proceed to the second round, and will fight against each other till death or by forcing the other to give up. At the end of the fight 8 fighter will emerge as the top 8 fighter in the world and will be given a title to them.
(In this stage, weapon of all kinds are allow expect for guns or similar weapons.)

The top 8 fighters will go to an island, where there will be 4 different kinds of battle fields. They will be Fire field, Ice field, water field, and cage.

The Fire field will be on a platform which is surrounded by magma, any one who drop in will die instantly.

The Ice field will be fought on top for a Ice platform with icy spike.

The water field is where fighter will be partially submerge in the water, which will restrain the agility.

Lastly the cage, fighters will be caged and one of their hand will be cuff together. and the cage will be raised up to the air.

After the top 8, 4 fighters will emerge and form the top 4. which they will compete with each other, the battle field will be the normal field, whereby the fighter can bring the best out of them and give it all out.

Finally, the final round. It will be a stadium, where the rich businessman will be watching. In the centre of the stadium, there will be a similar house which Hong Jin Bao stay. Fire arrow will be shooting at the house, which will later burn it down.

Who will emerge and who will die, what will be the story like?

It's just the beginning, will be posting The King of Martial Arts Part2(the characters)

My Dad's Dessert (Yong Yong Dessert)

My Dad had been in this dessert business ever since 15 May 1972 till now, he can last so long in this business, all because of his dessert are the best you can get in Malaysia.

This is his stall.


Therefore, i'm very proud to have him as my Dad. Last Sunday, i went to his stall and took some photos.

Have you seen this insect before?

i found this insect on my shirt last week, as it stick itself to my sleeve. i had search the web for the name of this insect.

if anyone have an idea of what is the name of this insect please let me know about it.

You Shen 2010

You Shen" or "Tour of the God" is one of the biggest event in Malaysia, it's a Chinese event where people celebrate by taking the figures of gods out to the street.

The History of "You Shen", i think it's more than a hundred years. Still many people take part in this event, and lot of foreigner will come here to feel how's it's like in this event.

For me, it's my family culture take all of us should take part in it. As by taking part, the gods will give you good luck and protection, and this is what we believe in.
This year was also the same I've take part, the only different is that now i take pictures of the whole event instead of carrying the gods.

Here are some of the pictures i took.

When we just arrive, i park my car near a shopping centre and i saw this beautiful dragon with the flowers so i took a picture of it.

Before we start the event we must pray to our gods first.


Lot's of people, and it rain that day too :(

My GF and I,

My Brother and his GF






There are also lot's of police there to stop people from fighting, but if you notice there are two or more policemen smoke on duty. (as expected in Malaysia, hope so day this will be better. As these sorts of things doesn't really show the good side of Malaysia.)

There are so many people,
















Even young kid like him took part in the event.

one of the gods, people will try to get a hold on the "god's seat", so to carry it.







Even Hip Hop dancer came to take part, yo yoZ



































Aunties who really live their lives.