Never compete your children with other's, especially between sibilings.

I happen to see lots of parents like to compete their children with others' children, which i think that this is really unfair of the children.

Have you ever wonder how your children feel about you competing them with other children? Do you know how they will think if they lose the so called "competition" you guys set for them?

And i think that all of you understood how it felt to lose some competition. To be victory in something is good, but to fail in something will bring the moral down. Especially with children, their innocent mind will be corrupted by your ego for competing mindset, which later will cause them to hate each other because of this.

i always think that if one had put effort in doing something, even if he or she failed you should support them by awarding them, and tell them to try harder next time.

It's always been hard to accept failure as an achievement, but it's always easy to accept success as an achievement.

It had been always said that "Failure is a step away from Success", By understanding this alone is easy, but to put it in life is difficult.

Anyone in this world isn't born to be a genius, everyone had to learn how to fall before they could walk. This too apply for both children and adult. Don't be afraid to fail, but be afraid that you don't learn from your failure.